Stop Bickering. It's Killing Your Relationship – Esther Perel

“We bicker all the time, she’s so critical of me and I don’t feel like I am doing anything right. What should I do?” – Anthony (Boston, MA)

Ongoing criticism and bickering can feel like low intensity, chronic warfare and lead to the demise of a relationship.

Listen to my arguments for kicking the bickering, stat. And if you’re on the receiving end, a few ideas to help communicate your frustration and the ways constant take downs make you feel.

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